We all have certain common notions of what a disabled person’s mind set is, what their expectations are, what do they expect from our society. But have you ever thought of what do they look forward to from the society? Are we really aware of what they think of the way we move with them? If you would have asked me all the above questions before I talked to Ms. Muthuselvi, my answer would have been Yes like most of yours, but not anymore. It’s only after talking to her I realized that whatever we think are presumptions and they are not true.
Muthuselvi, basically a B.L (Hons) graduate from Ambedkar law University, Chennai is currently the manager of Allahabad bank T-nagar branch, Chennai. As alumni of Little flower Convent, Chennai she owes her success to her parents and her School. In addition to conventional education, the school has also taken mobility classes, Road crossing and cooking classes which helped them to operate independently. “Every Visually challenged person should be independent, especially ladies” she says. “To effect that they should be a technology literate. Being familiar to the key board softwares such as JAWS (Job Access With Speech), NVDA (Non Visual Desktop Access) would help them to a greater extent. Talk back in android devices is the another technology they should be aware of” she added.
She is also a committee member of the All India confederation of the Blind(AICB) since 2011, an NGO headed by Mr.J.L.Kaul a Padmasri awardee based out of Delhi which provides legal literacy to the VCs. They conduct leadership workshops and workshops for advocating sexual right to empower the VCs. She handles the south zone of AICB which consists of 5 affiliated branches where she handles various projects and website maintenance. Her notable projects in AICB include coordinating the printing of VC friendly Magazines in which they print Mangayar malar and Chutti vigadan in Braille format. The NGO also works to get the appropriate rights and reservations for the VCs. Muthuselvi has worked for one such event where they got the 1% job reservation for VCs out of 3% in Pandian Grama Bank prior to which the bank had reservation for other disabilities such as orthopedics but not VCs. She also represented India in United Nations Convention on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities (UNCRPD). For her notable works she was awarded the Women Achiever Award on March’2016 on the eve of women’s day by the organization name Sakhi Mandal Sahayog and was honoured by the Governor of Tamilnadu.
When I asked her about her work place and whether her colleagues are helpful “Yes, they are helpful. But more than help I expect the people around me to treat me equally. It is not that we are always in need of help. We are not passive receivers. We are empowered as well. Sometimes we can also help others as well, share knowledge and many such things” she responded. She continued “Society always has a preconceived notion about the people with disabilities. Once when I was travelling to Kerala for a workshop, I was asked in train if I am Vikom Vijayalakshmi, A popular Singer from Kerala who is a Visually Challenged person too. I was asked this not just by one but by a couple of people. Initially I was cool and answered No, I am not. But when many such people asked the same, I asked them back if they have actually seen Vikom Vijayalakshmi for which they answered no. This is the situation in our society. Because we are blind they assume themselves that we can be only in certain professions like singing and cannot hold other occupations. There were also situations in which we were humiliated by the non-disabled people just because we are blind. All these preconceived notions should be gone and people should realize that are independent as well.” The heart reckoning part of this is that even the educated ones behave in such a way to them.
Our society is stereotyped to a great extent out of which some are really hurting a group of people. Becoming a developed and educated nation doesn’t revolve only around economy and technology of the country but also in the quality of thoughts of the people and the way they treat their fellow beings. How friendly we make this society for them in terms of moving around in the roads, shops and accessibility to technology by themselves without having to depend on others to a greater extent shows our real concern for them. Treating the people with a disability as equally as non-disabled is the best gratitude non-disabled can express to the almighty.
“To break the stereotypes non-disabled people should also be educated about the disabilities” we both unanimously accepted.
Aleast after reading this will each of us break the common preconceived notions we held so far about a person with disability?
Team Lit the Light thank Muthuselvi for her time and wish her the best for her endeavors.
Article by Sree Mahalakshmi