The drizzles
grew into torrents.
The small
house in that river town was flooded with the wishes and warmth of people, which
the occupants treasured more than the Gold won by their darling daughter. For
them, it was India’s victory and not hers alone!
The above
lines are not a prologue!
In the
coming September, for sure, we will relate the above to Judoka Sushila’s
victory, in the upcoming Rio 2016 Paralympics!
“I have
only a normal diet. My day starts in the Nehru Stadium and ends in my hostel
room, with painstaking practice, to grab the Gold for our India in Paralympics
2016. You can see me competing under B1 category (63 kg)”, says Sushila from
Aathur Taluk of Salem District.
Her great
respect and profound love for her parents makes VC(Visually Challenged) Sushila
travel from Nilachaaral hostel to her native Aathur, sometimes, but certainly
during monsoons, for a family re-union. For her, monsoons bring not only rains but
also her parents, who stay away and are woodcutters by profession!
“Becoming
a Judoka was not a choice, but a happening. I was the least welcomed one to
participate in any event during my school days because of my blindness.
Surrounded by normal sighted students, I had the only alternative to
participate in elocution or dance competitions, though my craving was for
sports. And my most cherished desire to participate in sports came true while I
was in Queen Mary’s College. And the sport was Judo!”
The
visible trajectory that has led Sushila to win Gold in the Common Wealth Games
2016(South Africa), has proved that her mother is the invisible force behind it.
“Do what
you like. Don’t pay heed to the discouraging words of others. You can do much
better than anyone,even with disabilities. I always stand by you”.
Words
that imbued her with solace and robust confidence!
For
Valliammal, her daughter Sushila’s personality development from a timid person to
a brazen one and her ability to face, sustain and handle challenges are much
bigger than the Gold medals won by her. An astounding fact I came to know, when
I asked her about the family’s reaction to her Common Wealth victory!
“We have
no secrets between us and we mutually share, teach and encourage. Vijayashanthi
is my good friend. I am in my second year of B.Ed and we both do B.Ed in SRM
University. UmaShankar Sir, our coach means as much to me as to Vijayashanthi.
And all my friends are good and they encourage me”.
“A
combined article on the duo would have been a better choice”. My thought, as it
read, when Sushila spoke about VijayaShanthi(another Judoka and CommonWealth
Gold Medalist) and their friendship, in reply to my question on their
association.
Sushila
is ready to compromise on ‘Tomato Rice’, her favorite food, but not on Ouchi-gari(foot throwing) her favorite
technique she adopts to win over her opponents.
Fear has
no place in her dictionary.
“I want
to continuously achieve and be an example to others who are like me. People
should understand that even persons like us are brave and capable of achieving,
instead of being looked down upon.
Further,
in many families it is a sad fact that girls are not encouraged and supported
to pursue and fulfill their ambition. And I request, the women of our nation,
in particular to have enough self-confidence to see them through, despite
hurdles on the way. Self confidence will automatically channelize the mind and
lead one to the possibilities of winning”.
How
beautifully she has conveyed, “Life is all about self-learning”!
“I’m
surrounded by good hearted people like our warden RadhaKrishnan Sir and Lit the
light group. I entirely owe my Common Wealth journey to them. And can you
please highlight that support from the Government at the right time, is most
needed for aspirants like us?”
With an
assurance to pass on her gratitude to and request, if any, for further support from
‘Lit the Light’, our conversation ended.
And
before I close - “Sushila’s
father Mani, a woodcutter, should have met the Angel from ‘The Axe and the Wood
Cutter’ in the Panchatantra story. And to his surprise, the Angel should have
offered Sushila – the stout hearted - as a boon!!”
Article by AnuradhaI think so. Do you?